The Clutch magazine article was enlightening because it reminded me that I mustn't fret over trying to find him. He's out there and when the time is right, he will come along. The goal is to focus on the waiting process. Waiting for something to happen before it happens is inevitable. It's like standing at a bus stop waiting for the bus. You know it's coming, but you also know that chances are it won't be on time. We all want love. True. But, what are we doing with that time before true love comes along? I've been guilty of doing alot of unhealthy ish during this waiting process. Perhaps my biggest fault was filling this time with empty prospects. For instance, last year I went on this whole cub binge. I was a straight up puma (cougar-in-training), ONLY dating
Gone are the days where I feel that I have to go out and find a man. 2011 is about finding myself. Better yet, 2011 is about defining myself. The dating game will remain the same, and I'll still be here to blog about it (ha ha) but I'm changing. I'm going into this next chapter with a new and fresh perspective. I'm so excited, aren't you?
So, I end this post with a simple question. How are you spending the waiting process?
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